Sometimes The Virtual World Is A Mystery To Me

Posted by: From Arkansas in Fun things, Humor
on May 12 2008 | Comment now

I guess I have been on a computer and online for about 12 years now. That is so hard to believe for me. But then I think back to when we had that old Color Computer working online. We obviously did not have graphics capabilities so everything was text…the email lists and any websites I went to. Because I had no real idea of what was out there at the time, it wasn’t that bad. By 1997, we upgraded to a better machine and WOW! I discovered what I had been missing. PICTURES!!!

Still, the virtual world is a mystery to me. For instance, in the beginning, when I wanted to send someone a copy of an email, my mind thought about creating a hard copy and sending it. Well, not really but I did think that if I sent it, it was gone. It took some time for me to get into my head that I still had the email in my inbox or folders. Sigh. I do know better now, of course, after all these years. But the net is still a mystery to me.

No-follow, for instance. You know what I would love to do? See, I have this thing turned on so that I can see all the “no-follow” links out there. Too many people still have that no-follow turned on. Now, I have it on at this blog until a person has commented a few times, then it’s gone. Makes for a nice way to have a link back to their blogs. I like it but it has to be earned by commenting. On the other hand, some people say they have no-follow turned off but it’s still there. Here’s where the virtual world is still a mystery. In my mind, all I have to do is take my Swiss Army knife out and cut the no-follow out of there. See? Takes care of the problem…only it doesn’t because it would have to be a virtual swiss army knife to work, wouldn’t it. Sigh.

Maybe I should just send it back to the Swiss Army. I told you. The virtual world is still a mystery to me.

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A Very Happy Mother’s Day!

Posted by: From Arkansas in Family stuff, Holidays
on May 11 2008 | 4 Comments

It is with a great deal of affection that I say Happy Mother’s Day both because I already said it to my Mom and because I am a Mom as well. I heard from my daughter yesterday. She wanted to be first to say that to me. I was blessed by her call. I love giving my Mom the flowers she loves on Mother’s Day. She loves the dark red roses that look so wonderful in a vase with white surrounding flowers.

On the other hand, I also love Garfield so she got him too. :) He’s a cat! Nuff said. We had a great day Saturday, well, if you don’t count the worries about bad weather, that is. Locally, we did okay. We got some rain but missed the bad stuff, at least for now. And I did get to see Mom, something that the rising gas prices might just prevent me from doing as often as I have been. We live about 18 miles from her. Yet, that isn’t as far as some have to go. I am blessed to be able to see her and talk to her on the phone anytime I want to. Many people do not have that option, like my husband and his brother. So, I am totally blessed by today!! Hope you are too.

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Guy Gets Thirty Days For Sharing Snack Cake

Posted by: From Arkansas in Beyond Bizarre
on May 10 2008 | 2 Comments

This has to be one of the most bizarre things I have seen in a while for a news story. There was a guy in prison who got a snack cake from a vending machine and shared it with a buddy of his in jail. The problem appears that he wasn’t supposed to share the thing because the other guy wasn’t allowed to eat it. So, the snack cake guy gets to spend 30 days and $1500 for sharing. Makes you think it would be wise never to share anything again, doesn’t it. But the guy dodged a bullet of sorts. The prosecutors in the case wanted him to get 9 months of jail time for giving the snack cake to the other guy.

Does anyone wonder why the second guy wasn’t allowed to eat a snack cake? Boy, I sure do. Hey, it was in Ohio. Nuff said.

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Bills To Pay, Bills To Throw Away

Posted by: From Arkansas in Bills, Computer Stuff
on May 10 2008 | Comment now

Nah, I don’t throw them away. I just feel like it. Usually, about the third or fourth of the month, I feel like tearing my hair out due to bills, bills and more bills. They’re like leaches coming in from everywhere to take the money straight out of our bank with no backward look. All the usual bills are coming in, of course. The utilities and the rent are not the problem. Those I can deal with just fine. It’s all those little things like food, gas for the car, propane in the tank out front, car repairs, medical bills and lots of other stuff. I think I might just take a day off from them. I wish.

But I have been thinking that if I had a budgeting software package, that might help the cause a whole lot. Of course, I wouldn’t know the first thing about using it since I rarely look at the docs. See, there are too many docs in our lives now…the medical kind. LOL! Yep, it’s a funny. If I don’t laugh, I am liable to cry. The bills take most of our checks each month. It’s amazing that we make it through the month each time as it is. I have to give that credit to the Lord!! He keeps us going. Don’t know what I would do otherwise.

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Adventures At Walmart: The Tires

Posted by: From Arkansas in Are You Kidding Me?, It's A Rant
on May 08 2008 | 2 Comments

Have you ever bought tires from Walmart before? I have. It usually went nicely. Years ago, Walmart had some pretty good prices and it was a really good idea, because of the prices of the tires and the little extras that went with them, to buy from them. Through the years, though, it became obvious that they were not the only place to go for good deals. The last time we bought tires, they came from a local tire store who did everything they could to make us feel like the customers.

Then came the prices crunch. Gas prices rose to a horrible height and things that used to be pretty cheap were getting more and more expensive. Having called several places to get quotes, I found that Walmart, once again, was the cheapest game in town. So, today, we trotted off to Wally to get our tires changed. And so the adventure began.

Actually, the adventure began when I called the tire and lube area of Wally. The young lady I talked with gave me a price for the tires, valve stems, road hazard insurance and lifetime rotation of tires. It was a pretty high price for us so I checked around with other places and found that, because our tire size is strange (it figures), we would have to stick with the places who could actually GET the tires.

I talked with one rude young man at a local tire shop where we used to get used tires. Well, I guess he was young. When I asked if he had the size tires, his reply was “Nope”. Silence. I then asked him if he might be getting any such size in? His reply was “Nope. Been waitin’ on some for over a week.” I guessed from that, that he had no intention of tying up his phone one more second with my foolish questions. I hung up.

Thus we went to Wally to buy our tires. We talked with the person at the desk. I asked him for the total of what we would be paying for 4 tires. He wanted me to buy the “special” which were nice, name brand tires but they were too expensive. I wanted the ones we picked out. Now, lest you get the idea that a) I was alone and he thought he could put one over on me, my BIG husband was with me or b) that he would allow anyone to have what they actually wanted…uh, no, he did not want that. But I do get what I want because I am the customer. Or so I thought.

First, he told us about the price, the quote, handed us a paper with the total on it. Fine. I did not want all that. He gave the price of individual tires times 4. Fine. After that, he added the valve stems…which are a separate charge. Oh yeah??? That’s funny. I thought you always got the valve stems WITH the tires. Seems pretty basic to me. But they are now a separate charge. Then, he added in road hazard insurance. That’s fine. Uh, it’s so much PER TIRE. Okkkkkkkkaaaay.
Not done. He also added lifetime rotation and slipped in balancing in the deal. It was only a separate charge too. Add all that up and you have a total that’s somewhat more than expected.

Okay, let’s negotiate. I didn’t really need the lifetime rotation. I can handle paying a couple of bucks as we need it. Take that off! He did. And the road hazard insurance, now that one is like gold since if you get a flat, they fix it for free. If the tire gets ruined, as long as it’s the road that did it, you get a new tire…prorated after a certain time. Not bad. I will keep that one. Adding the stems. Have to have those. So, I was expecting to at least have about a $40 difference and it came out to $10. Say WHAT??? Now that just ain’t right. What happened???

Well, the guy was pretty superior to start with acting like he knew so much more than we did. Then, he totally ignored my husband which is a bit hard to do but he did it. He wanted to argue with me about cost per item. The big problem came with the lifetime rotation which includes the balancing of the tires. See, if you do not want the lifetime rotation, you don’t have to take that. It was $30 I thought I was saving that way. However, if you do not take that they make you have the one time fee of $5 PER TIRE. That amounts to $20 for those swifties that didn’t get it. That makes the savings a grand total of $10. Now that was something that they could have mentioned in the first place, right? Nope. They did not.

Ah, but the real kicker is this. I asked for a TOTAL of what I would have to pay to buy the tires. The arrogant salesperson told me the total that he stated earlier. But when I pushed it, he admitted that that total did NOT, in fact, include taxes which amounted to an extra $30 or so. I was MAD! Neither the lady on the phone nor the arrogant know-it-all at the desk wanted to give out that little piece of info until the register was ringing it up. See, then you are stuck!! And stuck good!!! The tires are on the car. You have waited for quite a while because, even though they are not busy, they do not pull your car into the bay for about 20-30 minutes. Then, they want to know if you want those stupid whitewalls out or in. Who the heck needs whitewalls that amount to a white painted strip about three quarters of an inch wide. Sheesh.

The grand total came to way over what we had intended to pay. It was actually about almost $60 more than what we had figured they would cost. See, when they gave the quote, it included all the so-called extras which, in reality, are not extra. I thought we could do without some of them. You cannot do that. You NEED them especially if you travel in the country much or on bad roads and who doesn’t travel on bad roads these days. But now, Walmart is treating this much like you would going to a cafeteria where all the foods are separately priced. They did the same with the tires and accessories.

In reality, shopping is not what it used to be. Companies love to get the best of you, make you pay out way more than you count on paying. It does not matter that you are giving them your last dollar until payday. They could care less. They want the money, yours or someone else’s and they do not care if that means the kids don’t get their shoes this week or month. They are a greedy bunch now.

Very few companies are ethical anymore. I will not say that Walmart is or is not ethical. You can judge that for yourself. But we did find out that you are not going to get the real price of such things until you press it A LOT. That desk clerk was not going to tell us until the register rang it up, period. Then we would be forced to pay it, like it or not. I pretty much had to drag it out of him. That is a crying shame. Why must this be this way??? And I have no doubt that Walmart wants them to do it that way. None at all. How do I know? Because we went through this last time we were there with a different product.

While this is legal, it is misleading to the people who ask for a price. It is misleading because when someone asks the price, they are expecting the total and are getting the subtotal. So, buyer BEWARE!! Things are not what they seem. And I should mention that Walmart is not the only company doing this. Lots of them do it. They consider this to be good business practice. But I seriously doubt that if Sam Walton were here, he would accept that. He would be very unhappy with how his company is working. Very unhappy, I am guessing.

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Pump Pain, The Neverending Story

Posted by: From Arkansas in Are You Kidding Me?, Disaster news, Shame of America
on May 07 2008 | Comment now

For those of you who have lived in a cave for the last few months, pump pain is the price at the gas pump. And the beat goes on!!! And on and on and on. Where it stops, nobody knows. Yes, I could keep that up for hours. But the real problem is that we are the consumers. All of the profits depend on us. And we are doing NOTHING about it. NOTHING. Why? Good question.

For most people, gas is an essential item. Gone are the days when the car was a luxury. Now it is a necessity that gobbles and gobbles money. The pain at the pump is increasing each time we head for the pumps. Why is that? The first reason seems to be because those who control the oil wish to control the American people. The American people do not mind being controlled so this might just work out nicely…..for the oil people. For the rest of us, it is a nightmare with no end in sight.

The middle east is where it starts. The oil cartel decides how much to pump out and how often to stop it. They decide the number of gallons they are willing to let go of so that other countries can use their machines. Now, I do realize that we have some oil of our own. Most countries are not so blessed. But the kicker here is that most of our oil wells are capped. Anyone care to comment on that? I would love to know why that is.

Then there is the fact that we desperately need more refineries. Not having built any for a long time, it would seem to be smart to do so. However, the congress appears to have the say on that and they are not interested. SAY WHAT??? Nope. They will not allow any more refineries here in the US. Strange isn’t it.

See, I remember back in 1972 when the gas stations had enormous lines at the pumps because of a supposed gas shortage. We learned later that there was no shortage but people did not know that at the time. There were huge lines of cars waiting sometimes hours to get to the gas pump. The blessed ones got some gas..it was being rationed. The others found the station running out of gas by the time they got there. It was awful.

But the real problem here is that it was a test to see what would happen in the US if there ever was a shortage. Well, we did find out. People panic. There isn’t enough to go around. If you don’t get there first, you miss out. A lot of people are too desperate to lose out. There will be panic and crime following shortly after that.

Power. That’s what turns the world these days. Power to tell people what they can do, how they can act, where they can go. If the people who own the oil want to do so, they could give enough oil to take care of the current crisis and that is what it is, a crisis. And it is not going away. Why? Because we are vulnerable and they know it. Our President goes, hat in hand, to beg those ****** individuals and companies over in the middle east…and oh yes, the head dude of Saudi Arabia for more oil. Of course, they act like friends of ours. The dude says…oh, I will be glad to help in any way I can….but he does not. The oil cartel says NOPE, we are not pumping another drop. They can just live without for a while until we decide when they can have it again. We don’t like the way they run things. Time for us to run things. It’s all about POWER!

Then, when the greedy middle easterners finally get around to handing over the oil we need in the trickle down method, we are supposed to bow and scrape because we are so grateful to them for finally gifting us with what we pay dearly for..more oil. In come the greedy oil companies here in the US. They have ALL reported profits, some of them RECORD profits. And they have the gall (I was thinking of another word but this is a family blog) to go before congress and beg for more tax breaks!!!! HELLO!!! They are ripping us off at the pumps and THEY want more tax breaks???? Are you kidding me???

Our gas prices have never been higher. We heard on the news today that they were expected to reach $4 this summer. At some point, I had heard that “experts” think that we will see $200 a barrel (that’s pure GREED and there is no other way to say that) and $10 at the pump. Yes, they are bleeding us dry. Yes, they want control over us. Yes, we could do something about it but it would take guts and I haven’t seen much of that regarding this issue in the US recently. The congress will not address the issue enough. Yes, they had a committee meeting and some of the senators didn’t like the CEOs of the oil companies having the gall to ask for more tax breaks. So what. They have done absolutely nothing to help us at the pump where it hurts the most. Because once the pumps hurt everyone (and they are currently doing just that) then we will hurt at the grocery store, the discount stores, the pharmacy, the electric company, the propane and heating oil company, the toy store, the car dealerships, the phone company and any place else you can think of. AND IT’S HAPPENING RIGHT NOW!!!

SO, what can be done? Well, it would certainly take guts to slack off with your gas buying. I know. We live in a rural area. We NEED to buy gas so that our car can make it when there is a family emergency. We do have a few. Those who must go to work each day have to have gas too. There is no way around that fact. Unless people carpool, and they do that, there are few solutions to the problem. Perhaps what needs to be done is have a national “We are mad as hell and we ain’t gonna take it anymore!!!” day. Think anyone will do that? Nope. Know why? Because no one can trust anyone else to abide by it. There will always be some person who is more interested in their own lives than anyone else’s life. If we were to all do this together, we could make a difference. It’s like that truckers’ strike that should have happened in April. It really didn’t. There were always those truckers who won’t shut down because they need their paycheck. It’s always all about me, me, me and how it will affect ME!!! People are too selfish and self centered now. And I know I will get a few arguments on this one. There will always be a reason, an excuse for why they cannot participate.

“It’s all about my kids. They need food too.” “My landlord won’t wait one more minute. I HAVE to work so I cannot shut down.” “I don’t care. I want to live my life. Screw the other guy. Let him find his own gas.” “Who cares?” “No one else will do it. I will shut down if the rest do but not if only a handful of truckers do it.”

These are but a few of the comments that will occur should someone actually want to shut down. Take my word for it, it won’t happen. Everyone wants to protect number one and their families. Never mind that if we all did this, there would be major changes coming. The fact is that America is arrogant, selfish, self centered and cold hearted no matter what you might think. Yes, when the chips are down, they respond….but when? If we do not do something soon, it will be too late. Then the others will have control of us. It is almost too late now.

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To Relax In A Hammock Out By The Garden

Posted by: From Arkansas in Fun things, In The House
on May 04 2008 | Comment now

We don’t have a garden anymore. At best, it was pretty small but it was there in our back yard. Then the trees took over and the plants got no sunlight. The veggie plants that were in the sun just didn’t get as big or have the yield that we expected. But I have high hopes for this spring.

But what I really want to do is sit under a great shade tree with my laptop (not yet acquired though) in my hammock chair sipping iced tea and enjoying the day. I know I could do that if only I had the time. See, I think that if we take some time and just relax, the stress would not be as high. When I was a bit lot younger, I went out to get a tan. These days, if I see the sun it’s because I have to get something at the local dis–count store. Bah! I want to go back to when I was young and just learn to take it easy. Or do I? Nah! Never mind.

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Cats And Dogs: Oh My

Posted by: From Arkansas in Pets
on May 04 2008 | Comment now

We acquired a puppy a couple of weeks ago. We already have an almost 6 year old cat. He has seen two of his family die, our older cat named Kitty who was 9 and our almost 14 year old dog, Jazmine. When that happened, our younger cat was no longer willing to play. He was so clingy that he stayed with me most of the day.

Then we got the puppy. Misty is almost 8 weeks old. She is a German Shepherd/Lab/who knows mix. Misty loves to play with Gizmo, the cat. A lot. More than a lot. So much so that he has to find places to go that Misty cannot get to him. He needs a breather every once in a while. Usually, of course, he’s right in there playing with the pup. But I know there are times when he’d like to see a big, tall cat tree in our livingroom. The pup finds him almost everywhere now. I guess we need to get ahold of one of those trees. That way, he can get away when she turns into a much larger dog in about 16 months or so. I suspect the joke is on our cat. I hope he appreciates it.

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